(Aug. 27, 2010) Jane felt around beneath her; the coarse surface scratched her fingertips. Wherever she was, she hadn’t been here before. She’d explored many areas, but she’d never felt anything like this. As if she were blind, she felt her way. But, her eyes were wide open. Turns out, landing here opened her eyes — they’d been closed the entire time before this.
She had hit rock bottom. Landed, actually, on all fours. She hadn’t landed on her two feet, so crawling seemed to be the next best thing to walking. And being here, she realized that she’d been waiting to land for some time. All along she knew things weren’t going as they should, but it was the fear of hitting, the fear of actually feeling rock bottom’s texture, that kept her forcefully afloat.
There have been so many close calls. So many instances when her parachute probably shouldn’t have opened as she coasted through situations where she should have ended up flailing mid-air like a stray cat falling from a rooftop row home; floated through situations that would have taken others down with her.
There’s a saying that goes something like this: “You can’t save people from themselves. In the end, who they are is going to get them.” Turns out, we might all be running from ourselves; maybe we’re all being hunted down and chased by ourselves. Who we are brings us to our knees, or, in Jane’s particular case, all fours. She finds herself groveling at the foot of the rocky bottom, dry and unforgiving, brittle as coral.
Jane sits at a desk that has existed among generations within her family. Those before her knew this desk to be a different color. Now, layers become this desk and Jane only sees glimmers of the black that once lived a life with nowdeceased relatives of whom Jane holds so dear.
Being at this desk, hoping to bring it back to life, Jane has a thought: maybe we are meant to be altered. This desk has experienced being brand new, being introduced to a new life, felt the excitement and wonderment associated to what lies ahead.
Then BOOM. Tragedy struck. And this lovely and charming desk felt the abrasion that comes with losing its original layer, its base of black paint covered in a flesh-colored hue. Nicks and scratches seep through the new surface, hinting at scars and wounds. Chuck Palahniuck writes in his book ‘Diary,’ “It’s hard to forget pain, but it’s even harder to remember sweetness. We have no scar to show for happiness.”
Realizing her place at rock bottom, Jane will never love like she did before. She will never feel alone like this again. She will develop tougher skin, layers that coat her body with experience, wash away her naivety. Jane matches her scars up to comrades, linking a map of her life with the lineage manifested through others’ scars, drawing out the continual zigzag path on which we all wander.